My husband and I met at a conference in 2010. I was in the lobby on my computer with an attitude and looking a hot mess when he walked up to me and asked me to keep an eye on his bag. I should have said no. I mean, seriously, this guy was a stranger and wasn’t there a movie one time where a girl was put in jail in a foreign country because somebody asked her to watch their bag and there were drugs in it or something? Yeah. I probably should have said no. I said yes, though and you know why? Because he was fine.
Yes, honey! That stranger, who is now my husband, was so fine that I was willing to put my freedom on the line for him! Over the years, as my love has grown, so has my attraction towards him. I’m just a lucky girl to be able to spend all of my time with this handsome, sexy, sensitive, sweet guy. He’s just so masculine, y’all, and he has such a great smile. Mmm, mmm, mmm, he’s lucky he’s at work right now…
Anyway, as fun as it is to have a fine husband, there are some challenges that come with it. If you have an extraordinarily good looking husband, too, you’ll want to check out these ideas of how to get through life when your husband is fine.
What To Do When Your Husband Is Fine
1. Recognize that other women can see his fineness, too.
It’s ridiculous to think that no other woman is going to find your man attractive. You KNOW your man is fine, so expect that other women will know it, too. Instead of getting angry, be flattered, and thank her…from the both of you. Shade, darling. You’ll need to learn ALL about it when your man is fine.
2. Perfect your side eye.
Speaking of shade, the side eye goes hand in hand with it. You’ll find that the perfect side eye will thwart any unwanted attention from overly friendly admirers, as well as serve as a gentle reminder to your husband that flattered is okay, but don’t be foolish.
Read: 7 Side Eyes Every New Wife Needs To Perfect
3. Document the fine.
Take lots of pictures of your husband, Ladies. It doesn’t matter if he’s eating or trying to relax, if your man is fine, you need to get as many pictures of him as possible. Don’t worry if he gets annoyed. It’s not really directed at you. He’s just mad at his parents for making him look so good.
4. Acknowledge his good looks.
It can be the elephant in the room sometimes, your husband’s good looks, I know. Everyone (or maybe just you) sees that he is clearly the most handsome guy EVER with that tee-shirt/suit/athletic jersey on. Don’t take for granted that anyone has already TOLD him how good he looks, though. Besides, you’re his wife. Compliments have double impact when it comes from you!
Read: 10 Things To Say To Your Husband Every Day
5. Remember that you’re fine, too.
Sure your man is handsome, but don’t forget that you look good, too. You know what they say, “Birds of a feather flock together”. Keep that in mind if you ever start to feel self doubt and wonder why someone like him would want to be with someone like you. You got it going on, girlfriend, and clearly, your husband is not only fine, but smart enough to recognize how amazing you are and put a ring on it!
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Did you write this after we talked or was this just God’s preemptive way of telling me to chill out? I needed to read this today. Especially since my man is just finally figuring out how fine is really is.
I had it in my head, and our talk gave me the button it needed, @summerlendavis:disqus!
This is the best blog post I have read in FOREVER. It is hilarious and awesome and true and just, oh, I love it.
Thanks, @JessicaMcFadd:disqus! Us women and our fine husbands. What are we gonna do! Haha!
I died at the title of this!! So true! And this is the best post I have read in a long time. I was wondering what to do with all that fineness I woke up to this morning! 😉
Girl!! So many ideas, so little time. LOL! @mandibuckner:disqus
I think this is just adorable. 🙂
Thanks, @Nic_Mac:disqus!
THIS. Post! Is everything.
Thank you, @MariaGalatiSmith:disqus! <3
I enjoyed this post so much. For the past 24 years I have been married to a GORGEOUS man so I feel your pain. Keep in mind, a good wife is more valuable that rubies and a treasure to a good man. So when you have a fine husband, like you said, remember you are a treasure as well.
I love this, @janeanedavis:disqus!!! Yes!
Man, #5 hit me so hard. My husband IS fine and I have really been struggling with how “not fine” I feel these days. Thank you.
You’re welcome, Heather. Truthfully, it’s something I have to remind myself about often, too.
This is awesome. You had me giggling. Especially #2!
Thanks, @happyinmt:disqus! I hope you feel my pain. LOL!
Girl! You know I needed this 🙂 I’m good with 3, 4 & 5 but need to work on 1 and 2. I’m sure it shouldn’t take too long with practice to accomplish shade and side eye at the same time! Imagine if you didn’t want to watch his bag? What I really want to hear is the rest of it. Can we hear the “How we met” Or is there a link to it already?
This is sooo cute.. I love number 2, and really wish that all it took these day.. and Number 5 is right on point… Lol with the pictures I am sure he will get used to it at some point if he hasn’t already
Love this post! It’s wonderful to have a strong emotional connection to the person who you love… but physical attraction is also very important, and as you said, grows over time <3