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100 Days: A Look Back At Love

Single Mom Finds Love

As I prepare for the future, I took some time today to look back. One of the biggest benefits of being a blogger is having a digital time capsule of my life. My posts tell the stories of a single mom who didn’t know that she wanted love, but who found it anyway. I have bared my heart with you all on this blog, I’ve learned how to be a better mom by working through some challenges on this blog. Today, I celebrate the fact that I have a written record of the relationship that I have with the man that I’m going to marry…from the very first day I met him. I chose a few of those posts to share with you all today…100 days from my wedding day.

This post was written the day after I met Terrence. He and I talked in the lobby of the hotel we were both staying at for a conference, and when I went up to my room later, I all of a sudden remembered that I was not just a MOM, I was also a WOMAN. Yes, honey, I was feeling good!

Looking In The Mirror

Just a few weeks later, I was already smitten. I wrote a poem, y’all. Oh my goodness! Schoolgirl, much? I know, I know!

The Crush – A Poem

As Terrence and I were still learning each other way in a long distance relationship, I made the distinct choice not to be marriage material. Turns out, that works!

Marriage Material? I’d Rather Be Brandi Material. 

A few months later, though, I was putting marriage in the universe.

Love, Marriage Meet Universe

Soon after, things got real.

Single Mom Finds Love

But, I was still scared. I was scared out of my mind, y’all.

I’m Moving My Cheese. And My Child. And I’m Scared.

Things worked out, though! Even though we were living together, I elevated my expectations. I KNEW I wanted more, and I let him know that I wouldn’t expect anything less.

Stop Settling and Be Amazing. 

So now, I’m not stressing.

I Will Not Stress Out Over This Wedding

I am not in this alone.

Not In This Alone

See pictures from Our Wedding Day

How We Got To Forever (Or, How My Husband Became A Dad)

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Paula Schuck

Tuesday 28th of May 2019

I did not know you back then and am not even sure that C2E was around then, but you have always been such an interesting and smart business person. Loved reading this story of how you met your husband. So awesome!!

Shannon Gosney (The Mommy-File

Thursday 6th of June 2013

I love it girl! Being a single mom myself and now in an amazing relationship, you are definitely an inspiration for me! I'm heading over to your other posts. xoxo

Beth Zimmerman

Friday 31st of May 2013

Made it! Sweet look back over your life! Thanks for sharing! Blessings!


Sunday 2nd of June 2013

And blessings to you as well!


Friday 31st of May 2013

Awwwwwww this is so sweet. Blessings to you and on your marriage.


Sunday 2nd of June 2013

Thank you so much, Margaret!

Beth Zimmerman

Friday 31st of May 2013

Wishing you all the best, sweet Brandi! And I am leaving this post open so I can go back and read the links tomorrow! It's 1:22 A.M. (cst) and I have no business being up!


Sunday 2nd of June 2013

Thank you so much for checking out my posts, Beth! It really means so much to me that you would click and read through. :-)